Nothing screams ‘Love’ like February. With all the buzz going around Valentine’s Day it is hard not to think about romance. If you are wondering how to bring love into your life, you are in the right place. Here are our top 5 ways to attract love.
#1. Forgive & Let Go of Past Lovers
Even if you think you are ready for a new relationship, you need to let go of previous relationships. Instead of wondering how to attract love into your life, focus on completing the past first. Ask yourself: “What makes me feel resentful towards my ex-partner?”, What lessons did I learn?”, “What can I now let go of?”. Also, do not forget to consciously declare your willingness to forgive YOURSELF for your own mistakes.
#2. Learn to Love Yourself
Before you learn how to attract someone, it is vital to fall in love with yourself. It is a common false belief that self-love is all about getting a massage or going on a nice self-care retreat. In fact, self-love includes accepting your weaknesses, respecting your boundaries and taking care of your own needs. Being able to do all of these will, later on, enable you to co-create a healthy relationship with your new partner.
#3. Get Clear About What You Are Looking For
It is easy to focus on all the superficial characteristics we desire in a partner. He should be tall, she should love to dance, etc. When we talk about clarity, we actually mean identifying your core values and never making compromises with them. The right partner for you should share your values even if they have different ways of living in alignment with them.
#4. Raise Your Vibration
Once you know what type of relationship you want to build, it is time to raise your vibration. You can do so by doing things you love on a daily basis. Other useful routines include practising gratitude for life’s blessings, as well as reading affirmations for attracting a husband.
#5. Keep Taking Steps
No matter how often you visualize, this will be pointless if you do not take action in the outer world. Once you have taken the inner steps, it is time to show the world you are ready for love. This might include creating an online dating profile or asking your friends to introduce you to available men/women.
As you can see, there are numerous ways to attract love in your life. Whatever path you choose for yourself, know that you will need to combine inner work and outer action. This might sound scary to some of you, but know that love is possible when we manage to open ourselves for it and put some skin in the game.
